July 28, 2006
自控
昨天我妈来我家.我替他申请了几个工作,然后就一起去散步.每次和妈妈聊天,我总是不明白他为人处事到底是什标准.每一次听到大红最白牙地说出种族歧视的话,或只对我赚大钱的期望,我真不知道怎样告诉她,"I’m sorry I’m not you and those things offend me!"
我曾试者和他明明白白的说,却好像一无是处.如今,我也算放弃了.妈妈来了,她将她的,我就听着.她的人生经历与我不同,听他与我聊天,对与不对总是一种沟通.这世界上总会有各种各样的人,要是每个人的人生观和世界观都是一样的,那也挺可怕的.
现在我真正需要的是自控,控制自己不急着用自己的标准去衡量别人.这样也给我少了不少烦心的事.就好像昨天妈妈来,两个人分手的时候心情都很好.也许这就是尊重吧!
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Faith said,
July 28, 2006 at 12:20 pm
hello~~~
randomly find ur space, seems that i found someone who shares the same mother tongue with me, hehe
it will be great to make friends with u~!
Karen said,
July 28, 2006 at 5:27 pm
Nice meeting you Faith, are you from the States?
wanli said,
July 28, 2006 at 7:20 pm
妈妈有她对女儿的期盼，希望你做的更好，你要理解啊，尽管人与人的思想不同，但这是亲情与亲情的交流，我觉得应去融入思想中，去努力发展，可以采取自己喜欢的方式生活！
Faith said,
July 29, 2006 at 4:50 am
im not from the states…
im now in china, but will go to canberra next feb.
and u? studying in canada?? or u born canadian?
Karen said,
July 29, 2006 at 6:55 am
That\’s so cool! Australia is one of my biggest dreams! I love their accent and the ocean. We don\’t have a lot of sandy beaches in Canada and the water is kind of chilly. Nonetheless, it\’s really beautiful. It\’s one of those calming type of beautiful, not very …. hot like in Australia and make you just want to lay on the beach and tan. :p
I wasn\’t born here no.